How to choose a modern reading for your wedding ceremony

The bride's sister and brother reading a poem during their wedding ceremony at Hyde House, Stow-on-the-Wold

One of the best ways to add personality to your ceremony is to include readings. Inviting your closest family and friends to give a reading gives them a meaningful role on your special day. It also breaks up the ceremony and give guests another voice / focus during the ceremony.

Finding a Reading That Matches Your Style

Choosing the perfect ceremony reading starts with thinking about the vibe you want to create. Ask yourself: is it Romantic and Classic? Relaxed and Lighthearted? Or perhaps something in between?

Next, find a selection of readings that align with your desired style (I have some examples below which are a great starting point). Read through them and think about how they make you feel. Remember, the initial emotion you feel when hearing a reading is likely what your guests will experience, too. Trust your instincts and choose the reading that gives you butterflies and feels truly 'you.'

Making a Ceremony Reading More Personal

To make your ceremony reading even more special, consider inviting your readers to write something uniquely for you. They can share marriage advice based on their experiences or narrate a story about your relationship from their perspective - the possibilities are endless!

The groom's sister reading a poem during their wedding ceremony at Hyde House, Stow-on-the-Wold

Including Children in Your Wedding Ceremony

If you have children attending your ceremony and would like to include them, think about using their favourite books, films, or song lyrics as readings. You can ask children to read something themselves or if they are too young, choose an excerpt from a beloved storybook to share during the ceremony.

Do you have some examples of modern ceremony readings?

Yes! You can download some of my favourite modern ceremony readings below. Whether your wedding ceremony is set in a Cotswold garden, a West Midlands warehouse, or any unique location, there is bound to be a reading that fits your style. Remember, each reading you don’t like brings you closer to finding your perfect match!

If you need any help with choosing readings for your ceremony or would like me to write a personalised poem for you, click here to get in touch.

Conclusion

Incorporating readings into your wedding ceremony allows for personalisation and meaningful contributions from loved ones. A reading enhances the emotional depth of the ceremony, making it memorable for both the couple and their guests. Take your time exploring various readings, and ensure they align with your overall style and preferences. Your wedding day should reflect your unique love story.

Adding readings brings a new voice, personality and perspective to your ceremony, creating an atmosphere filled with love, laughter, and warmth. Embrace this opportunity to celebrate your journey together in a truly special way through readings from your favourite people! Here are some examples to get you started...