How to choose a modern reading for your wedding ceremony

The bride's sister and brother reading a poem during their wedding ceremony at Hyde House, Stow-on-the-Wold

One of the best ways to add personality to your ceremony is to include readings. Inviting your closest family and friends to participate in a reading gives them a meaningful role on your special day. It also breaks up the ceremony and provides guests with another voice to listen to instead of just the officiant for half an hour.

Finding a Reading That Matches Your Style

Choosing the perfect ceremony reading begins with considering the vibe you want to create. Ask yourself: is it Romantic and Classic? Modern and Lighthearted? Or perhaps something in between?

Next, gather a selection of readings that align with your desired style. Read through them and pay attention to how they make you feel. Each reading that doesn’t resonate will bring you closer to the one that does. Remember, the initial emotion you feel when hearing a reading is likely what your guests will experience, too. Trust your instincts and choose the reading that gives you butterflies and feels truly 'you.'

Making a Ceremony Reading More Personal

To make your ceremony reading even more special, consider inviting your readers to write something uniquely for you. They can share marriage advice based on their experiences or narrate a story about your relationship from their perspective—the possibilities are endless!

The groom's sister reading a poem during their wedding ceremony at Hyde House, Stow-on-the-Wold

Including Children in Your Wedding Ceremony

If you have children attending your ceremony, think about incorporating their favourite books, films, or song lyrics as readings. This is particularly effective for making them feel included! You can ask children to read a passage, or if they are too young, choose an excerpt from a beloved storybook to share during the ceremony.

Examples of Modern Ceremony Readings

Yes! You can download some of my favourite modern ceremony readings below. Whether your wedding ceremony is set in a Cotswold garden, a West Midlands warehouse, or any unique location, there is bound to be a reading that fits your style. Remember, each reading you don’t like brings you closer to finding your perfect match!

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Conclusion

Incorporating readings into your wedding ceremony allows for personalisation and meaningful contributions from loved ones. This element enhances the emotional depth of the ceremony, making it memorable for both the couple and their guests. Take your time exploring various readings, and ensure they align with your overall style and preferences. Your wedding day should reflect your unique love story.

Adding readings not only breaks the monotony but also adds diverse voices to the occasion, creating an atmosphere filled with love, laughter, and warmth. Embrace this opportunity to celebrate your journey together in a truly special way through readings that speak to your hearts.